Here are some questions for you to ask yourself to help understand what your needs are:
-What am I tolerating? What am I willing to tolerate? What boundaries and consequences do I have to set up for myself to protect myself?
-How can I simplify my life to live from a peaceful centered core? How do I clear my mind of all the thoughts to live in the present instead of regretting the past or fearing the future?
-What are my beliefs, values, and standards? How do I become a person of integrity, doing what is right and healthy for me? How do I orient my life around those values to feel fulfilled?
-What do I need to do right now to manage my life? How do I create the time, space, wisdom, opportunity, money, relationships, and sense of self to get beyond my neediness and to provide a sense of well being? How do I communicate those needs and surround myself with positive and constructive relationships?
-How do I focus my mind on my goals and to nurture my empowerment and self?
-How do I protect what is important to me?
As you reflect on them - act on them to create a richer and more balanced life for yourself.